fix(merge): conventional merge-commit default and live verify progress

The merge commit message was hand-rolled per caller ("Merge task: <title>",
"Merge <branch>", "Merge subtask") and ignored the task's commit type. Every
caller now passes a blank message and TaskMergeService fills in
CommitMessageBuilder.BuildMerge -> {commitType}(list-slug): merge <title> plus the
ClaudeDo-Task trailer; the merge modal prefills it from GetMergeTargets.

A merge whose list has a verify command holds the MergeTask call for minutes (5m46s
on this repo), during which the modal only disabled its button - no spinner, no
message, so a landed merge looked like a dead app. TaskMergeService now broadcasts
MergeProgress(taskId, phase, elapsedSeconds) for the merging and verifying phases
(re-reported every 30s) plus a WorkerLog line when verify starts; the modal shows a
spinner and the localized phase.

src/ClaudeDo.Ui/Services/Interfaces/IWorkerClient.cs

@@ -34,6 +34,11 @@ public interface IWorkerClient : INotifyPropertyChanged
     event Action<string>? PrepLineEvent;
     event Action<bool>? PrepFinishedEvent;
 
+    /// <summary>(taskId, phase, elapsedSeconds) — phase of an in-flight single-task merge
+    /// ("merging" | "verifying"). Fires while the MergeTask call itself is still pending, so the
+    /// waiting UI can show what it's blocked on; the verify phase re-fires every 30 s.</summary>
+    event Action<string, string, int>? MergeProgressEvent;
+
     event Action<string, string>? PlanningMergeStartedEvent;
     event Action<string, string>? PlanningSubtaskMergedEvent;
     /// <summary>(planningTaskId, subtaskId, conflictedFiles, externallyDriven). externallyDriven