fix(worker,ui): block cancelling a task while its unit merge is draining

TaskStateService.CancelAsync allowed cancelling a WaitingForReview task
even while PlanningMergeOrchestrator was mid-drain on it: ApproveReview
awaits the whole multi-subtask merge synchronously, so a concurrent
CancelReview (UI or MCP) could flip the parent to Cancelled while the
orchestrator kept merging children onto the target branch, then
FinalizeParentDoneAsync would find the parent no longer WaitingForReview
and give up - leaving the merged diffs stranded with no rollback.

CancelAsync now rejects with a clear reason when HasActiveMerge(taskId)
is true. TaskStateService can't take PlanningMergeOrchestrator as a
direct constructor dependency (circular back to ITaskStateService), so
it takes a lazily-resolved Func<IActiveMergeState> instead, mirroring
the existing Func<ITaskStateService> cycle-break already used for
PlanningChainCoordinator.

UI polish: DetailsIslandViewModel.IsMergeDraining gates
CancelReviewCommand's CanExecute (same shape as
WorktreesOverviewModalViewModel.IsMerging), and the command's catch now
raises ErrorReported instead of swallowing the rejection silently.

src/ClaudeDo.Worker/Planning/Interfaces/IActiveMergeState.cs

@@ -0,0 +1,10 @@
+namespace ClaudeDo.Worker.Planning;
+
+// Lets TaskStateService guard CancelAsync against an in-progress unit merge without a
+// hard constructor cycle back to PlanningMergeOrchestrator (which itself depends on
+// ITaskStateService) — TaskStateService takes a Func<IActiveMergeState> instead, resolved
+// lazily so both singletons can finish constructing before either calls into the other.
+public interface IActiveMergeState
+{
+    bool HasActiveMerge(string taskId);
+}

src/ClaudeDo.Worker/Planning/PlanningMergeOrchestrator.cs

@@ -13,7 +13,7 @@ namespace ClaudeDo.Worker.Planning;
 /// <summary>A unit-merge conflict currently paused, driven by an MCP session rather than the UI.</summary>
 public sealed record ExternalPlanningMergeConflict(string PlanningTaskId, string SubtaskId);
 
-public sealed class PlanningMergeOrchestrator
+public sealed class PlanningMergeOrchestrator : IActiveMergeState
 {
     private readonly IDbContextFactory<ClaudeDoDbContext> _dbFactory;
     private readonly TaskMergeService _merge;