fix: resolve critical bugs and improve reliability across worker, data, UI

- Fix worker using wrong DB by defaulting to CurrentUser service account
  and expanding ~ to absolute paths at install time
- Fix DbContext disposed before fire-and-forget by passing taskId instead
  of TaskEntity into RunInSlotAsync, which creates its own context
- Fix ActiveTaskDto property casing mismatch between hub and client
- Move WAL mode PRAGMA before migrations to prevent concurrent lock issues
- Replace FirstAsync with FirstOrDefaultAsync + null guards in tag operations
- Add delete confirmation flow for lists
- Log fire-and-forget exceptions instead of swallowing them
- Broadcast RunCreated event from WorkerHub.RunNow
- Add IDisposable to MainWindowViewModel for event handler cleanup
- Preserve subtask CreatedAt on updates instead of overwriting
- Replace bare catch blocks with Debug.WriteLine logging

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

src/ClaudeDo.Installer/Core/InstallContext.cs

@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ public sealed class InstallContext
     public int SignalRPort { get; set; } = 47_821;
     public int QueueBackstopIntervalMs { get; set; } = 30_000;
     public string ClaudeBin { get; set; } = "claude";
-    public string ServiceAccount { get; set; } = "LocalSystem";
+    public string ServiceAccount { get; set; } = "CurrentUser";
     public bool AutoStart { get; set; } = true;
     public int RestartDelayMs { get; set; } = 5000;